"Update" Now part of a couple, seems to be everything I was looking for........and more. We are exploring bdsm a little[light bondage] and she is bi-curious, so we are now searching for a women or a couple to join us.[help!!! I don't know how much longer I can keep up] First, I am looking for something long term. Short term can be fun, but I really want more then "flavor of the week" And more then just bedroom activities. Takes time to develop the trust I seek. Time to get inside your mind a little to find your triggers. For that special women, it will be worth the effort. Some may say I should go to True or Match. Well sex is important to me. Here I can say "My partner must be into extended foreplay and receiving oral sex." Not to mention fantasies and role-playing. I like the freedom here. Second, for any who would not consider me because at this age I may soon need a cane to walk.........let's go dancing some evening. You'll see. It's fun to be underestimated. I am a very active outdoor type, my work is sometimes physically demanding, when it's not, I work out some.[martial arts] Strong, quiet, competent, subtle, patient. A little unorthodox. Easy going and laid back. To a point. There's some alpha male in me and I will take charge when necessary. Or desired. Rarely swear or yell[exceptions made when dropping something on my foot, hammer contacts thumb, etc.] Responsible adult...........most of the time. There is a wild side that sneaks out sometimes. A bit of a romantic chivalrous gentleman. I do know how to treat a lady. I dress appropriate to the occasion. While I hate ties and prefer casual, I will not show up to you somewhere, wearing a t-shirt advertising beer. Or with something obscene on it. Or a t-shirt period. If we are going out I expect we both will be spiffed up. Many varied interests and accomplishments. I'm not allergic to s. I have them, and I understand the responsibilities. Distance. I don't mind traveling some to meet. I am realistic in this, if I contact you and we are far apart, I expect to be doing most of the travelling. I can see a lot of benefits with spending the weekends together. I work hard[and sometimes long hours] during the week. Anticipation of a couple of days together would help the week go by. Sometimes possible to do a 4 day-3 days off. There are ways to make it work.

My Ideal Person Looks are just one part of attraction, what she is as a person, what she does with what she has, is what makes a women sexy. More than a bra size or hair color.
Reasonably fit. Should be close to my level.
It's really more about the mental then the physical.
A woman that understands sensual as well as sexual. Can use anticipation..........a women who would wear lingerie under her work outfit and be thinking about later, would defiantly get the attention she deserves, at ALL times.
An experienced women would be great[she might teach me some things] A little kinky, better. A little inexperienced-sure, I like to take charge and I do like the role of teacher.
All she needs is a willingness to explore.
A women who craves a strong, protective and loyal male.
A woman who craves trust. A simple thing..........and so important. With trust comes freedom to explore.
Someone who can fulfill my fantasies would be great, but not required. If you are not into them, I'll just get some new ones. I have a great imagination.

If you got this far, I must have said something to get your interest. All I have to impress you is words and a pic, and the fakes are better at it then I am. Unlike the fakes, here there's no con, and no disappointments. I am not perfect, I make mistakes. Try to learn from them. My expectations are realistic.
Only one way to find out if I'm real. Take a chance, we both may get lucky.

What are your favorite musicians or bands?:
Too many to list.

Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
My future partner can provide inspiration, and it'll
be just for her. Can get pretty kinky too.

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
A bed, The beach, A moving vehicle (i.e. car), A dark back alley, A movie theatre, A remote wilderness spot, Under a waterfall, A hotel room

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Light Bondage, Role Playing, Blindfolds, Massage

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
Nothing more than a passing "that'd be fun"

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