I would say people describe me as easy going and down-to-earth; I'm pretty laissez faire about life and I like to go-with-the-flow. I love dogs and cats; however, I currently don't have any. I stay with roommates. I have some pretty significant medical issues; however, I have still been able to stay physically fit and I enjoy exercising. I work at night and keep pretty odd hours. Wherever I find myself, I'm able to make friends. Negativity is pretty repulsive to me, I prefer to look for the good things in people because I believe that it is always there. I am very shy, gentle, and friendly. I would say that the main rea I am on this site is because I tend to be friend-zoned; however, I do long to have a closer relationship with an open-minded per. I am pretty opinionated and blunt when it comes to political ideology and I'm about as liberal as a per can be so I would say that if you are religious or conservative then I'm not the one for you. That being said, I do not think I am better than anyone else; in fact, I truly believe that we are all equal because, while we all tend to naturally put others down, we really do not have the ability rationally to say that we are better or higher than anyone else. More love, less hate; thank you for reading :)

My Ideal Person I would like to find someone who is open-minded and has interests in life. I do not have many physical traits that are deal makers or breakers; however, I am more attracted to individuals who care about their health and wellbeing than those who do not. I am a very caring person, not so much with words but more so with actions; I feel very lucky because I couldn't imagine life where I just try to get myself from point A to point B it seems very meaningless. I would love to find someone who cares about me as well and tries to understand me as a person. I strive to be honest, even when it is hard. My only requirement is that you feel comfortable speaking your mind. If you decide I am not for you, I respect that and I will leave. If I do not meet your physical standards, I respect that because every girl should not settle for less that what she desires. If you want a NSA situation and you feel that I am coming to close, I respect that as well. If you are seeing other guys, I respect that. Just please be open, I can handle a lot, but dishonesty hurts when the truth is not told when it should be and I can handle it but if you are lying it probably means you are putting yourself in harms way somehow and that would really bother me. Sorry I rambled but I've learned a thing or two during my existence

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
A bed

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Light Bondage, Spanking

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Same/similar fetishes, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Agreeable to a commitment free sexual relationship, Creativity/Kinkiness level

Have you ever had cybersex?:
No way. I only want skin on skin.

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